Sometimes we are so wrapped up in work, chores, children that night, making love with the beloved man becomes a purely mechanical process.
Many women complain that never had an orgasm, even being a few years married. But is the reason only a man? Unlikely. Of course, from the stronger sex depends: does he have his partner, is able to stimulate the erogenous zones. What to do if when you have sex, You can't relax until the end? What to do if a long time do not have an orgasm?
The answer is obvious: before intimacy with a loved one you can bring yourself and enjoy all the delights of making love together with him.
The easiest and probably reliable is to trust your imagination. Anyway, and women have laid all in the head.
For anybody not a secret that a woman's mind is able to imagine everything in great detail and even to believe in their fantasies, as in the real thing. In our case, to use imagination would be very helpful. Try to imagine yourself with a loved one. Try to feel his manly arms, the smell of men's Cologne, feel it stroking Your delicate skin, penetrating farther in the nooks of Your body. Concentrate. Imagine that every movement of his body gives You a lot of fun.
Quite a few minutes during the day detailed fantasies, to the evening, You were prepared for a long and passionate night.
Another equally effective method is to love yourself in clothes, without it. Stand in front of the mirror in all growth, consider your own naked body. Even if You have flaws, You do not need to focus attention to them. Learn to love your reflection in the mirror. Try to caress and stroke her. Do not hesitate to know your body. Learn what gives You more enjoyment, which touch You more excite. If You do look yourself, then it will be easier in the future to direct Your partner to the desired action. Remember, no shame in this. The body needs to discharge. Without loving yourself, You will never feel the maximum pleasure and hence orgasm You will know only from the words of garrulous girlfriends or viewed erotic films.
Even if You don't have a permanent partner, it is enough to imagine the guy of Your dreams. This can be a famous idol or young person, which You have went crazy, or simple, familiar attractive appearance. In this case, you can use toys a sex shop for a full experience.
Among men ("alpha males", as they call themselves), it is believed that good sex can be tied to any girl. I would not be so opinionated about this, even if the young man is a mega good lover.
A girl who is well aware of your body and can arouse themselves, will be able to experience orgasm with a man who will be with her in bed.
Hence, it can be a mistress of the situation, not captive – to pick a guy based on his inner qualities, reliability and responsibility, and orgasm, with mutual desire, it's just a result of working on the body and imagination.
Taking pleasure in sexual intercourse depend on the mutual desires of men and women. When one of them or both feel mental or physical fatigue, experience daily stress at home and at work, they are very hard to tune in to the wave of love and pleasure. In such cases, the invaluable help provide agents which enhance libido and increase vitality.
Drugs that increase libido, benefiting not only men but also beautiful ladies. Women actively use them in combat frigidity, and also with the aim of realizing sexual potential and overcome shyness in bed. Women, even those who were previously unfamiliar feeling of orgasm, you begin to experience when taking sexual agents.
Lack of sexual desire is not so rare problem among the representatives of the beautiful half of humanity. On the libido of ladies may be influenced by a number of factors, however, often the problem arises against the background of a particular psychological state:
Increase libido and get a new thrill in bed will help the pathogens for women. Moreover, these tools will enjoy not only the lady but also her partner, as the dream of any man is incredibly passionate and sexy woman.
Most stimulants have a rapid effect, which is very important for sexual intercourse. In addition, sexual pathogens have virtually no side effect. The only exceptions are cases where there is increased sensitivity to certain components of the drug.
Aphrodisiacs have the following effect on the female body:
The first signs of sexual arousal in women can be noticed already after a few minutes after the use of aphrodisiacs. The lady becomes more sexual and uninhibited, her breath quickens and harden nipples.
Using aphrodisiacs loving each other partners are able to diversify the sexual life, returning to it the occasion and former passions.
Therefore, stimulating drug used in ancient times and DOS not yet lost its popularity. In the middle ages tools that increase libido in women can be found only from traditional healers who for many centuries have studied the mechanism of action of certain substances on humans.
In our country more recently, to buy the stimulating drug was almost impossible because of the existing at the time of public morality. Now aphrodisiac can be openly bought at any pharmacy, not to mention the sex shops. Therefore, men is not difficult to bring your beloved to an unbridled lust for sex, thus ensuring the obtaining of sexual pleasure for both partners.
There are many causative agents for women of different forms and methods of use. Due to this diversity every beautiful lady has the opportunity to acquire sexual stimulant to your liking:
It is important to understand that pharmacological agents whatever they was no good only give short term effect and completely eliminate the problem. In addition, they adversely affect human health and cause addiction. However, do not despair, because there may come to the aid of folk medicine, with its centuries of experience.
There are many natural aphrodisiacs of herbal origin, which are able to regain lost sexual passion. To use folk remedies that promote sexual arousal, you need to get to know them. Regular use of natural aphrodisiac will not only help to restore sexual desire, but also to improve overall health.
Jasmine. Collected flowers to dry, grind and fill the thermos. Raw materials pour boiling water (0.5 l) and insist in a warm place for one hour, drain. Use 1 time/day 100 ml instead of tea.
Arnica. You need to take the dried flowers of the plant (15 g.), grind and brew boiling water (400 ml). Take a few hours before sexual intercourse in 50 ml. Rhizome plants chop and pour boiling water (300 ml), to insist 2 hours in a warm place. Apply one hour before sexual intercourse for 2 tsp.
Raspberry. Is quite effective the female agent. For the preparation of the mixture, whisk (preferably with a mixer) a few quail eggs and add to them the chopped raspberries (100 g.), this also put a bit of honey. The mixture was thoroughly mixed and store in a cool place (the fridge). The resulting tool used daily by 10 grams 2 times/day: at lunch and before bedtime.
Plantain and nettle. The mixture of these plants is an effective aphrodisiac for women. For its preparation must take the seeds of plantain and nettle in the ratio of 1:1, grind to a powder, add raw materials into a glass container and add a little honey. Composition stir thoroughly and place the container on a windowsill, let it brew during the week. Apply daily for 10 gr. before dinner.
Ginseng. Is the most popular natural agent for women. Under its influence in the human body there are certain biological processes that affect the increase of libido.
The fenugreek. The use of this plant as the pathogen is another delicious way to solve the problem of low libido. Properties of fenugreek seeds were known to the ancient peoples of Greece, Egypt and Rome. The taste of the plant is a bit like toffee or maple syrup, used to flavor dishes and in spice mixes. In India fenugreek leaves are eaten as a vegetable. Tools made with fenugreek, for centuries, used to increase libido in men and women, in addition, these drugs help improve the condition of breast tissue and to increase lactation in lactating women. Some even argue that this aphrodisiac helps to increase breast size.
Aloe. You need to take a few leaves of the plant, wash thoroughly and chop. The resulting slurry combine with honey in a 1:1 ratio, mix well. Take daily one spoon.
In most cases, reduced libido is not a serious problem and means for its solution, as a rule, are on hand almost every woman. Sometimes ladies for some reason can't make a drug yourself (basic laziness, lack of time, etc.).
However, to improve libido it is not necessary to strain yourself by preparing different mixtures and infusions, simply include in your diet certain foods.
Try to eat more seafood, beans and citrus. Increase of sexual desire also contributes to the use of the following products:
As you have understood, it is actually quite simple. Knowing about the stimulating properties of certain plants and products, you'll be able to not only enhance sexual desire, but also to improve their mood and health.
The best caress - belly. Need to lightly press on it, and even better to put a small pillow that will be a little pressure during the movements. Sensible advice, these pressing - in fact, direct stimulation of the uterus. Its reduction can cause arousal, and orgasm, but it is important not to overdo it. As a rule,
this is effective when female is already bred, but still not close to the desired orgasm.
A few taps on the abdomen to the point of orgasm significantly enhance the pleasure.
It is necessary to introduce into the vagina a solution of alum. Alum tightens the vagina, increase its sensitivity, but much of dried mucous. If the first couple of minutes the woman will still a burning sensation in the genitals for arousal, then it will be less and less nice. And yet, this method is fraught with inflammations. So it should not be used.
Insert before contact a tampon in the anus. A fun suggestion that is not devoid of common sense: the compression causes the collapse of anus and vagina (sometimes its volume is reduced by a centimeter). Because of this, more stimulation get the sensory nerve endings of the vagina. Know that this method I like to use women who gave birth. And yet do not get carried away - long-term use it carries the risk of hyperextension of the muscles of the anus.
You must first "warm up" the vagina is to take a bath with the herb elecampane or sea salt.
Light stimulation of the warm water can "Wake up" the sensitive spots, but not much.
And the hot water is what will help a woman to relax. Bath with elecampane or with salt increases your body temperature and causes a rush of blood, but to make a woman very excitable she can't.
Dissolve a couple drops of iodine in a glass of milk and drink before contact. This cocktail causes uterine contractions, increases her muscle tone. Sometimes "folk midwives" I propose to use it for prolonged labor. But the orgasm he is unlikely to have an impact, besides the taste of it unpleasant.
To enter an hour before intercourse in the vagina carrot. A certain stimulating effect it have may: first, the mechanical irritation of the vaginal walls causes a rush of blood, and secondly,
the carotene contained in carrot juice has a tonic effect.
Only the carrots must be cleaned and thoroughly cleaned.
It is necessary to open the window or the window a little wider and have sex in a cold bedroom. When the air temperature is 17-19 degrees more blood just rushes to the body, and the sensitivity may increase. There is evidence that some women have it really enhances the excitement.